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10. Agathon, Pausanias and Diotima in Plato’s Symposium: Paiderastia and Philosophia
The image is suggestive in itself, [5] but in a Greek context and within the framework of paiderastia, it raises a number of problems. Agathon, who is not the older partner, plays the dominant role that should by rights be that of Socrates. However, is this not, on Socrates’ part, an expression of his irony? At the end of the dialogue, we find a similar reversal of roles between Alcibiades and Socrates. Alcibiades, who also wants to lie down beside Socrates gives a detailed description of his attempts to seduce Socrates:
Here I will limit myself to Plato’s critique of paiderastia, praised in the speeches of Pausanias and Agathon, but criticized in that of Diotima, [6] who considers the acquisition of knowledge as childbirth, implying the experiences of pregnancy and giving birth. Consequently, while I concede that the first subtitle of this dialogue is On love, I would like to show that for Plato, the point is above all to raise questions about paiderastia, a social convention which, implying sexual relations among males, played an important part in education at Athens in the highest social classes.
1. Sexuality in ancient Greece in the classical period [7]
2. An inventory of sexual behaviors according to Aristophanes
2.1 Between men and women
2.2 Between women
2.3 Between men
- (1) Paiderastia implies a relation not between two adult males, but between a male citizen and a pais in the proper sense of “boy” who was in an age class that began around the age of puberty, until the appearance of the first beard; [16] i.e. roughly between 12 and 18. [17] In the context envisaged here, the term pais [18] conventionally designated a young male capable of becoming the object of sexual desire on the part of an adult male. It should be noted that pais also means ‘slave’, which indicates the inferior status [19] that the young boy has in his relation with an adult; he is younger and plays the passive role.
- (2) The appearance of fuzz on a boy’s cheeks represents the summit of his sexual attractiveness, which lasts until the arrival of the first beard. [20] At a transitional phase, a young boy can play both an active and a passive role in a sexual relation, but with different partners (Dover 1989:196–203). A grown man who, after his first beard, continues to play a passive role in a sexual relation with a male citizen is always mocked, [21] which is never the case for the man playing an active role (Dover 1989:139).
- (3) Since it is restricted to one period of life for the young boy, and since it is not associated with an inclination for one particular individual, paiderastia is not exclusive to one individual: it is expected that young males will marry (Symposium 192a7–b5), after having played the passive role in the context of a homosexual relation, and at the same time as they continue to play an active role in such relations. [22] {233|234}
- (4) Even when paiderastia relations are characterized by affection and tenderness, an emotional and erotic asymmetry subsists which the Greeks distinguish by speaking of the lover’s erôs and the beloved’s philia. [23] This asymmetry has its source in the very division of “sexual labor.” A young boy (pais), who is not moved by passionate desire as his lover is, must therefore not play an active sexual role. [24]
- (5) The older male is qualified as an erastês, whereas the younger one is called his erômenos (the present passive participle of eran), or his paidika (a neuter plural that literally means “what concerns young boys”). [25] The amorous language found in Greek literature of a certain level, and in Plato in particular, always remains discreet, but the reader should not be fooled. Terms like hupourgein, ‘to do someone a service’ [26] and kharizesthai ‘to accord a favor’ [27] must often be interpreted in a specifically sexual meaning: the service expected or the favor requested by the older male is equivalent, in the final analysis, to physical contact leading to an ejaculation, even if, according to the context, a smile or a pleasant word may be all is needed to keep a lover happy. Society encouraged attempts at seduction undertaken by the erastês, but did not tolerate those made by the erômenos. [28] An older man, inspired by love, pursued with his advances a younger man who, if he yielded, was led to do so out of affection, gratitude, and admiration, feelings that are grouped together under the term philia; an honorable erômenos should not seek pleasure in his case. [29] {234|235}
- a. He must have been born around 448/7, because in 432/1, Agathon was already linked to Pausanias, in a context that might be that of paiderastia. In the Protagoras (315d6–e3), we read: “Seated on couches next to Prodicus {235|236} of Ceos were Pausanias of Cerameis, and with Pausanias a fairly young boy (νέον τι ἔτι μειράκιον), well-bred I would say, and certainly good-looking. I think I heard his name is Agathon, and I wouldn’t be surprised if he were Pausanias’ young love (paidika).” If we consider that the term meirakion designates an age class that goes from 14–21, and therefore that Agathon may have been about 16, and if we situate the dramatic date of the Protagoras around 432/1, [33] we can place Agathon’s birth around 448/7.
- b. In 416, at the beginning of the year, Agathon was celebrating his first victory as a tragic author, and the Symposium alludes to this victory. [34] The speech he then pronounces reveals the influence of Gorgias, as Socrates points out to him before he himself begins to speak. [35] Agathon is then about thirty, and is still linked to Pausanias. Three passages in the Symposium [36] allude to the intimacy of their relations.
- c. In 411, according to Aristotle, [37] Agathon congratulated Antiphon on his defense, which seems to indicate that his preferences did not tend towards democracy. [38] This political gesture may have focused upon Agathon the disapproval manifested by the Thesmophoriazusae. In that year, Aristophanes’ characters mocked Agathon with unparalleled violence by presenting him as a passive homosexual and an effeminate man. [39] This was less than five years after Agathon’s victory as a tragic poet. {236|237}
- d. Around 407, Agathon left for the court of Archelaus, king of Macedonia. [40] He seems to have remained with Archelaus, who had also invited the painter Zeuxis, the musician Timotheus of Miletus, the tragic poet Choerilus of Samos, and above all Euripides, to his court at Pella. Pausanias accompanied him. [41]
- e. Agathon died in all probability at the end of the fifth century, when he was not yet 50 years old. [42]
- a. In 432/1, in the Protagoras (315d–e), that is, 16 years before the date in which the event recounted in the Symposium is supposed to take place, we find Pausanias and Agathon side by side near the couch of the Prodicus of Ceos. Pausanias must be older than Agathon, who is his beloved (erômenos). One might imagine an age difference of 15 or 20 years: Pausanias will then {237|238} have been between 30 and 40. [45] He must therefore have been born between 470–460, and would be a contemporary of Socrates.
- b. In 416, Pausanias was a guest at the celebration Plato’s Symposium was supposed to recount. At the time of Agathon’s victory, Pausanias was in his fifties, as were Socrates and Acumenus. He gives a speech in praise of Eros that is partly critical with regard to Athenian morals concerning homosexuality. In Pausanias, we observe a defense and illustration of paiderastia that is presumably related to the permanence of the couple he formed with Agathon, the man who was his “beloved.” It seems, moreover, that, in the speech he is supposed to have given in the Symposium, Pausanias alludes to Agathon in at least two passages [46] in his description of the ideal lover.
- c. Around 407, Pausanias accompanies Agathon to the court of Archelaus, king of Macedonia.
3. The speeches of Pausanias, Agathon, and Diotima in the Symposium
3.1 Pausanias’ speech (180c–185c) [50]
- (1) This unequal relationship in which the beloved (erômenos), a young boy, is the slave of his older lover (erastês) must have as its goal not only the pleasure of the body, but also the improvement of the beloved’s soul.
- (2) Love for young boys implies sexual relations. {243|244}
- (3) It is impossible to know what Pausanias understands by “soul”, but we should note that he gives the term “character” [68] as a synonym for it. This is why the beloved must not seek wealth and power above all else in his lover, who, for his part, must have as his goal the search for excellence in general and more specifically of wisdom in particular in his beloved.
- (4) For this reason, paiderastia is justified by philosophia, [69] and it presents itself as a means given to a boy to exercise his intelligence.
- (5) The link between the educative character of paiderastia and its sexual aspect appears clearly in the following passage:
- The existence of sexual relations, clearly alluded to, between a young boy and his lover are justified in an educative context where the boy is led towards wisdom and all other forms of excellence by his lover.
- (6) Yet it is precisely by means of education, it seems to me, that Pausanias tries to justify the fact that the lover may prolong amorous relations after the appearance of the first beard on his beloved. The emphasis on constancy in the amorous relation between two men demands the transcendence of the limits admitted in the context of paiderastia. This plea does not prevent the characters in Aristophanes’ Thesmophoriazusae from reflecting views of Athenian society in denouncing Agathon’s attitude in the violation of this rule of conduct.
3.2. Agathon’s speech (194e–197e)
3.3. Diotima’s speech (201e–209e)
These discourses may be, as tradition would have it, those of poets like Homer and Hesiod, of legislators like Lycurgus and Solon, and even of inventors (209c7–e3). Yet the highest part of thought is situated in justice and moderation (209a7–b1). Men who seek to be fruitful in this area become educators. They then seek out a young man whose body, and above all whose soul, shine with beauty, and they speak to him of virtue, that is, of the duties and occupations of a worthy man (209b2–c2). Upon contact (ἁπτόμενος) with a beautiful object, and by means of assiduous presence (ὁμιλῶν) near him, they engender and procreate (τίκτει καὶ γεννᾷ) what they long had within them (ἃ πάλαι ἐκύει, c2–3). It is interesting to note that it is the older man who is pregnant (κυῶν), who gives birth and procreates (τίκτει καὶ γεννᾷ), and who therefore reaps the benefit of the relation, while the young man represents that beauty which, as we have just seen, presides over the childbirth or the soul, as Moira and Eilithuia do for the body (206b–d). The procedure is as follows: because he teaches a young man, the older man brings forth to the light of day the beautiful children he bore within him, which then appear in the form of fine discourses and fine actions. It should also be noted that that to which he gives birth (τὸ γεννηθὲν) was already within him (ἃ πάλαι ἐκύει), which, it seems to me, is an allusion to reminiscence. This process does not stop at birth, for the child, whether discourse or action, is nourished (συνεκτρέφει) by the two protagonists, with the one who has given birth nourishing him both when the young man is present and when he is absent, for in this case the child remembers him. In other words, both the educator and the person being educated develop the fine discourses and perpetuate the fine actions that are their children. “This makes the relation (κοινωνίαν) between such men far more intimate than that which consists in having children together (τῶν παίδων) according to the body, and these children they have in common are more beautiful and more assured of immortality than children according to the body.” This long passage (208e–209e) is surprising, for it describes the pregnancy (a phenomenon that is in principle feminine) of a man, who, once he has given birth, raises the children he has given to another man, who is his beloved (erômenos).
This passage, which takes up what was said at 210a–211b, while replacing epistêmai (210c–e) by mathêmata (211c–d), develops an idea similar to the one found at Phaedrus 250a. What love is searching for is beauty, which manifests {249|250} itself at various levels of reality: hence the interest of explaining how it is possible to pass from the sensible to the intelligible by way of the Mysteries. [80]
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